tadyatha om gate gate paragate parasamgate bodhi svaha
insist on maintaining awareness of connection
|Light Source Ptaah
Flow of Money
"We suggest that each day you remind yourself of what you really do have and say a most heartfelt thank you! Also, when you are looking for ways that you may manifest a flow of money, look into the direction of the heart, of the interest, the fascination, the passion and start thinking outside the box!"
Psychic validation is the key to feeling well.
Humans feel well when validated, and humans feel badly when invalidated.
validation = a normal and constant psycho-emotional state of approval, value, worthiness, suitability, appropriateness, inclusion, appreciation, and protection which arises from being infused with values of goodness and core rightness by the persons who are tasked to provide that assessment.
Certain roles have a formal validation requirement built-in, such as professional performance review.
Other roles, notably the life-partner, provide constant informal feedback that can"make or break" the native 's self-esteem.
Opposite of validation = betrayal
Fear of abandonment drives betrayal drama
Prevent betrayal of trust via self-validation
The source of betrayal is a core belief that one is unworthy of validation.
Be-tray-al = invalidation of trust [tray/trey]. Eng. trust = Norman Fr. tray. E.g., treachery, treason.
The most profound psychological fear in humans in not fear of hunger or fear of death. Those fears are simple because they have a physical referent.
The deepest terror is not the loss of physical life - which is easily replaced by a reincarnation. Rather, the deepest terror is the fear of abandonment. Abandonment means the cruel withdrawal or refusal of sustaining resources necessary for continuation of human life.
Virtually everyone has an ancient memory of having been abandoned by the parents, the clan, or the village - perhaps due to a critical food shortage, a deformity, or gender bias. Wounded warriors abandoned by their fellow-fighters. Many enrolled students in the School of Earth have reinforced similar memories in their current-life childhoods, by choosing parents who shamed, blamed, and humiliated.
When inquiring into patterns of invalidationa and betrayal, look for roots within the substratum fear of abandonment.
Learning to identify and convert the Core belief in unworthiness is the main homework topic for most modern students in the School of Earth.
Once identified by its effects, the core belief in unworthiness can be converted to its opposite. One may consciously invoke personal trust in one's own Divine nature which is implicitly worthy. To prevent betrayal, identify the feelings of optimism, joy, contentment, and connection. Of these, electro-emotional-spiritual connection -e.g., love - is the most important awareness.
Focus on positioning one's awareness of permanent flowing connectivity into the core. Honor the historic memories of disconnection and abandonment, then release those memories from the core and intentionally replace with that precious State of Awareness of infinite and eternal connection, which is love.
Recovering from ancient habituation to fear-of-abandonment
Love is not a commodity but rather a state of being. To prevent the recurring pattern of emotional re-injury through betrayal, one must take command of the inner core. The old pain is familiar and oddly comfortable. The new realization requires intention to dislodge a deep-rooted old pain and replace with sober intent to live differently. The new regime requires disconnecting from the socially reinforced belief that love is a commodity which must be conferred by outside arbiters of value [the spouse, the amour, the banker, the guru, the deity].
It is a major undertaking for most students to excavate the debris of millennia, eradicate the fear-based conviction that one is isolated and surely will be abandoned, and replace this core negative-but-sustaining belief with an even-more-ancient awareness of inherent connection to all necessary resources -- emotional, physical, intellectual, spiritual. As the ignorance and squalor of Kali Yuga fades -- gone now for the next 22,000 years -- so the energy awareness of Dvapara Yuga begins to be recovered.
Divine nature is the very stronghold of value, the ultimate experience of truth. However, if one has been indoctrinated to demonstrate piety by worshipping [apply worth to] external objects such as deities or money, then one's own inherent worth may be at first empty.
Jyotishavidya predictors of validation and invalidation
The psychic fact = all yin turns to yang, and all yang goes toward yin.
There are times in life which offer ego-boosting validation from highly visible social positioning in the pyramids and networks of people and ideas. There are times of valuable goods and conserved knowledge acquisition; sensual luxury; rich food and drink. There are times of agreement and alliance, of material fruitfulness including creative performance and the birth of children. There are times of clever analysis and persuasive argument, delicious gossip and witty jokes.
There are also times in life, particularly periods of the planetary lords of dushthamsha, which forecast moderate to severe invalidation
Limits of validation from humans.
Why dangerous? Because human validation is inherently inconsistent and volatile.
All human Jyotishaviya nativities show a role for Ari bhava and lord of 6th bhava as counted from numerous lagna.
Humans are notoriously fickle in their loyalty to people, places, and ideas. A grand declaration of lifetime conviction can easily turn to a trivial dismissal. Except for the mother's bond to her children, no bond of human-to-human loyalty or promise of continuing appreciate will be quite reliable throughout this life.
|The Dharma Taken to Heart
QUOTATION from Pema Chödrön
The Wisdom of No Escape and the Path of Loving-Kindness, p. 86
" The dharma should really be taken to heart, not just used as a way to get cozy and secure or to continue your habitual pattern of self-denigration or your habitual pattern of striving for perfection.
Initially you may find that you use the dharma as you've always used everything else, but then, because it's the dharma, it might occur to you that you're using it to denigrate yourself or to become a perfectionist.
"Oh my goodness! I'm using this to make the world into love and light or to make it a resentful, harsh place."
[Shukra] = validation via financial well-being, beauty, attractiveness, social partnership
Shukra = kalatrakaraka + dhanakaraka = the primary and most obvious karaka for social-material value in the Jyotishavidya nativity .
Shukra's two primary containers of value =
Shukra problems = social invalidation
Take care to understand the implicit and explicit approval of 'worthiness' one seeks to obtain from the life-partner, from the boss, the government, the religious teacher, the parents, the school-master, the neighbors, the political electorate, the publications industry, news media, stock-holders, customers, colleagues, boards of directors, students, children, bankers, in-laws, co-workers, and the public as a whole.
What sort of value are these designated judges and approvers likely to be capable of recognizing?
Naturally, their default values are material = Shukra + [Shani-yuti-Budha] . The two central gauges of value are money-price and partner-attractiveness, followed closely by social and economic rank, and finally by communicative and logical mentality.
However, after the initial psychic surge of social-material well-being which energizes the native with a feeling of worthiness traceable to the unconditional love of the mother, will the"high" feeling of super-worthiness be maintained?
Response to social invalidation
Probably not, because:
The psychic fact = all yin turns to yang, and all yang goes toward yin.
Great pledges of fidelity in partnership [Shukra] and great hoards of collected items [Shukra] are sensually enriching and feel utterly wonderful in the temporary moment.
So when the sense-pleasures cease, the life partner becomes critical or abusive, or the bank account dwindles, is the person spiritually invalid?
It is said that the definition of insanity is to do the same action repeatedly each time expecting different results. After several experiences of invalidation (sometimes quite devastating ) it might be much more pragmatic to stop depending on these very limited utility outside sources of validation . Consider drawing primary validation from within.
Do you really want your self-esteem to be emotionally dependent on this comically fickle cycle of getting"stuff" ?
What goes up must come down and indeed if Rahu-Ketu are involved the up-down cycle can be perilous to mental and emotional equanimity.
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|"And now my friends,
all that is true, all that is noble,
all that is just and pure,
all that is loveable and gracious,
whatever is excellent and admirable -
fill all your thoughts with these things."
~~ Paul of Tarsus, Epistle to the Philippians 4:8