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Matching Energy

A few mechanical basics

on how and why we attract Others

Shukra



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(Gayatri mantra)


Essentially, the radix, varga charts, and various dasha systems divine the characteristics of what psychics call your"matching energy."

We all create our own reality.

We are the complete movie-making team - producer, director, costume designer, casting agent, et al - within ourselves.

The way people create the beings and inanimate environment around them is by projecting our internal imagery on to a blank screen.

Human internal encoding pours out a massive stream of information. This information is permanent. It is stored from lifetime to lifetime in the container which our culture calls the"subconscious."

Only a small slice of the total information bank is available to conscious awareness. We acknowledge only that small slice as we proceed through normal life. Our limited access is actually a blessing because human body/mind is not yet evolved enough to handle greater truths. If we had access to the whole truth most of us would circuit-overload and go insane.

However, through meditation, trance, and other spiritual trainings it is possible to plumb the depths of the subconscious just a little bit, in a safe way, that can bring peace and confidencer.


Matching"Up" toward Bliss

Psychic Attraction * akarshana * and Repulsion * vikarshana * on the Path of Partnership


"What do we mean when we speak of a truly compassionate kindness ?

  • Compassion is essentially concern for others' welfare -- their happiness and their suffering.

Others wish to avoid misery as much as we do.

So a compassionate person feels concerned when others are miserable

and develops a positive intention to free them from it.

As ordinary beings,

  • our feeling of closeness to our friends and relatives is little more than an expression of clinging desire.

  • It needs to be tempered, not enhanced.

It is important not to confuse attachment and compassion ....

A compassionate thought is motivated by a wish to help release beings from their misery."

~~14th Dalai Lama 1935- Policy of Kindness Tenzing Gyatso . (2003). Stages of Meditation .

Ven. Geshe Lobsang Jordhen, Losang Choephel Ganchenpa, and Jeremy Russell (Trans.).


In the realm of matter, one and the same object can serve as a cause of happiness for some living beings, and a cause of suffering for others.

Certain plants, for example, function as medicine for some creatures, but for other species they can be poisonous.

From the point of view of the object itself there is no difference, but because of the physical constitution and the material state of the particular living being, that single self-same object can affect them in different ways.

Then, in the sphere of our own experiences, the same holds true.

certain individual may appear to some as very friendly, kind and gentle, and so gives them feelings of happiness and pleasure.

Yet to others that same person can appear harmful and wicked, and so cause them discomfort and unhappiness.

What this kind of example points to is that, although external matter may act as a cause for our experience of pain and pleasure, the principal cause that determines whether we experience happiness or suffering lies within .

This is the reason why, when Buddha identified the origin of suffering, he pointed within and not outside, because he knew that the principal causes of our suffering are our own negative emotions and the actions they drive us to do.


~~ 14th Dalai Lama 1935- Policy of Kindness Tenzing Gyatso . (2001.). Dzogchen: The Heart Essence of the Great Perfection. Thupten Jinpa and Richard Barron (Trans.), patrick Gaffney (Ed.), foreword by Sogyal Rinpoche.


Q: [from a person experiencing the repulsion part of the cycle , specifically repulsion to the partner's punishment energy that generates anger and manipulation within relationships]

You say that"If the punishment energy that holds the victim role (either living it or enabling it) in place is consciously released and spiritual harmony becomes the core truth, then spiritual harmony will be reflected back in all the heart relationships that ground through one's core."

How can punishment energy be released without destroying a historic, core, important relationship like a troubled marriage or a relationship with an abusive parent?

A: Releasing the punishment energy (a victimizing complex of guilt and grief) is a simple psychic act that has no predetermined social, financial, or moral consequences in a relationship.

  • It's a personal spiritual decision to set one's personal energy at a higher, lighter, more subtle level; which entails the decision to un-set the center, to move the center, from a lower, heavier, more gross level.

  • At the psychic level it's total kindergarten. One simply asks oneself"how do I want to feel?" If the answer is "I want to feel relaxed, naeutral, and amused" then one commits to being in that space and returning to that space if one should stray.

Having set the energy at relaxed neutrality, it is quite easy to catch the people in one's environment who are throwing negative, grosser, reactive energy into one's space, because The contrast between the nice vibe where you set your psychic center versus the icky vibe where they pitch the energy, is felt in The earthen body .It's easy and obvious to feel the difference in vibration.

  • So all the energy-setting, all the commitment to feel neutral, all the boundaries, are established within.

  • At this point The psychic clearing process does not involve - cannot involve - any other person.

Note: Most psychics use colors to set their energy. They'll often choose to set their spiritual space at gold, their work space at green, their children space at rosy pink, etc. But that's too complex for what we're talking about now - we're just talking about setting the core energy at neutral.

After the core energy is set at neutral any non-neutral energy (anger, anxiety, guilt grief etc.) that tries to penetrate the core is very easy to spot. And the purveyor of that energy is easy to identify because when you're around that person *if the boundaries are weak* you will lose the neutral centering and slip down into the lower poo-poo to match the privileged invader. ( when the boundaries/conviction weaken one remains vulnerable to invasion by historically privileged negativity, old yucky patterns that might not be nice but one is habituated to them and they sneak in with a familiar person...)


When your personal psychic clearing starts to affect intimate others:

  • As personal as the core-energy-decision setting is, we are inherently social beings and everything we think and do affects the energy fields of the people around us.

  • All of our partnerships, including the family relationships we are born into, are psychically predetermined attractions caused by matching energy.


ALL RELATIONSHIPS ARE BASED ON MATCHING ENERGY

So having set the core energy, made the commitment to operate from a psychic base of neutrality and amusement, what happens when some familiar person constantly barrages one with sustained onslaughts of negative energy? Initially there is lots of trial and error. I set my energy high, iwant to live in peace and awareness, but some privileged person in my life constantly throws at me criticism, fear, belittlement, free-ranging anxiety, obsession, etc. What can I do to sustain the relationship?


It is human nature to strive upwards in consciousness, toward the higher-self God, toward bliss.

Actually, there is nothing to actively do. Each soul is determined to advance out of ignorance toward merging with the divine. That's what souls do; that's what we're here for. If my awareness just took a big step up and I actually recognize the beauty of that neutral, reflective, clear state I am going to want to stay there - stay high on the ridge top. I will naturally, because of the nature of the human spirit, resist going down into the foggy bottom again.

Be Here Now 1931-2019 Baba Ram Dassused to say, once the seed is planted, you can't really turn back. The seed grows upwards. It's our nature to strive upwards in consciousness, toward God, toward bliss.

But there is always hope.

  • Perhaps the person throwing negative energy, trying to control the relationship through fear and anxiety, is just about ready him/herself to take their own step up.

  • Maybe the script at this juncture = they just need a little reminding about where that neutral space is, they just need a little role-modeling to demonstrate a higher center that they too have experienced before and they too want as their next step.

  • This is a nice result, when a pre-incarnationally planned phase of ignorance and suffering ends for both people at approximately the same time.

  • One partner may be slightly ahead, but the behind partner catches up quickly.

Good verbal communication is the key at these junctures: the partner ahead talks about how he/she wants to feel in the relationship, the partners talk together about the repeating event configurations where habitual negative energy arises, and they work together consciously on those associated with the production of polarizing catalysis = configurations to proactively release negative energy as it enters the shared activity field, never permitting it to enter the core.

Most importantly they proactively consciously replace the historic negative energy with positive energy ( intelligence, creativity, love) so that they can continue to share their bonding experiences (like child-raising) but at a much higher vibration.


The key to"Matching Up" is the behind partner's level of consciousness

However, in order for the following partner to catch up with and match the leading partner's energy he/she MUST BE ABLE TO RECOGNIZE THE NEUTRAL PEACEFUL SPACE within themselves and they MUST WANT TO BE THERE.

If they don't know what that space is, if they have never felt the calm bliss of trust, or if they have perhaps felt it but they have been acculturated to believe that this calm state is the enemy -- so that their instinctive reaction to that neutral space is to destroy it, try to weigh it down into something grosser, slower, more familiar like anxiety or hatred or bitterness or fear - then from where would they match?

They can't match"up" r.


Matching"Down" goes against nature

If the behind partner can't match up then in order to sustain the relationship the ahead partner will need to abandon one's higher center and match down . The human psyche naturally matches "up" . It's trying to get to divine bliss. The path to the divine is orchestrated into a series of love matches, as we meet people who are running very slightly higher vibrations than ourselves, are attracted to them (gurus, parents, partners, children, friends) and we match "up" to the more subtle vibration of their higher awareness.

The prognosis for successfully matching down is poor indeed because it is simply against nature to"choose" unhappiness.


How the personal psychic valence starts to manifest financial and moral clarity

Even though the psychic decision to set one's core energy at neutrality is strictly personal with no pre-determined external implications, it definitely impacts all the core-to-core relationships as soon as one leaves one's own space and enters into social communication with another being.

Say for example, that after much deliberation one is firmly committed to feeling neutral [technically the valence of that state is neutral-to-slightly-positive, it's blissful amusement] but perhaps a financial obligation persistently invades one's space with negative energy. Say it's an old debt, maybe it's not a"fair" debt and there's lots of injustice, scarcity, bickering energy around it. Perhaps it's been hanging around forever dragging down one's energy but one stays in the conflict about whether one should guilt language - pay the debt.


Getting unstuck

If the commitment to neutrality is strong one wants this type of repeating negative energy out of one's space pronto. It becomes obvious that -- regardless of legal or moral principle -- to get this lingering junk out of one's space it is most efficient energetically to pay the bill and get on with life. In obvious housecleaning issues like money and law courts one knows that the goal of resolving the dispute is to obtain that feeling of freedom; knowing how one wants to feel and generally what it will take to restore that feeling allows one to cut to the chase very quickly. There is very little lingering in matters of principle and who was legally or morally right etc.

By contrast, somebody who is stuck at the lower levels will want to drag out these discussions about fairness equity justice forever as a control strategy. But fair is a construct of social morality designed to sustain societies full of people operating at lower levels of consciousness. So one of the consequences of setting higher core energy is that one is prone to release negative energy very quickly.


Liberation from control obsession

One is -- As a result of firmly setting a neutral valence in the core which opens one to rest in a state of trust -- largely liberated from bondage to public opinion and from an obsessive relationship to affluence .

(However, liberation from obsessive relationship to affluence tends very much to increase wealth at ALL levels as state of trust/openness to abundance greatly eases and increases permission to enjoy!)


Q: You said that "Occasionally, an important relationship that was grounded in the former victim/blame space will be unable to reground at the higher energy level after the upgrade."

As I set my energy at neutrality while my partner wants to fight and bog me down in negativity, ithink I see an unbridgeable gap. But I'd like to salvage my life partnership! We've been together a long time and we have a great deal invested in joint projects (family, business, sangha). Does the baby always goes out with the bathwater?

A: No, not if the partner is CAPABLE AND DESIROUS of matching at the higher level. It is always possible that they are just at the threshold of developing this consciousness - that they too need and KNOW THEY NEED (know it in their gut, know it deep enough to really commit to it) a pervasive peace and trust at the core of their being, and they sincerely want to operate from that core in all of their relationships.


One last chance for your abuser - for this lifetime...

This is what last chances are all about - one final pass, rEALLY CLOSELY CHECKING to make sure that the fallen-behind partner is given every opportunity to match up.

But if they can't match - which often they can't for pre-incarnationally planned reasons - then expect separation on the path for the remainder of this life, although you can be sure to meet up again in a future life because this closely involved person however damaging the results of the closeness IS a core connection.

(There are 75-100 such core connections for each of us which reconfigure each lifetime.)

" And now my friends,

all that is true,

all that is noble,

all that is just and pure,

all that is loveable and gracious,

whatever is excellent and admirable -

fill all your thoughts with these things."

~~ Paul of Tarsus, Epistle to the Philippians 4:8

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updated: 22 March 2024

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