Barbara Pijan Lama Jyotisha Readings
Writing Questions for Your Jyotisha Reading
Please note that Jyotisha readings are offered to students of the vidya for educational purposes only. Readings have no warranty either express or implied.
|example of questions that are not questions but rather = vague and generalized announcements |
Usually this happens when the ego-injured person, who has been criticized, blamed, and belittled, is nervously trying to establish their moral worth before posing the actual question.
However, being so concerned with avoiding blame, the querent never actually asks their own question.
As you are composing the questions for the reading, try to be aware of any fear of criticism which may cause one to make an announcement rather than ask a question.
Jyotisha is a global, universal system, not a local ethno-moral system.
Jyotisha has no opinion on local moral worthiness judgments such as right-wrong or good-bad or praise-blame.
Jyotisha can only identify"what" is happening on the unfoldment clock.
Yes, there can be identifiable events such as "others blame you". However Jyotisha cannot pronounce whether the emotional suffering caused by the blame is right or wrong.
Jyotisha can say only what it is happening, and how long may be its duration.
what happened? what circumstances? what needs healing?
If you trust them fully, why are you asking a question about them? What does "more involved" mean? Are you faced with a decision? Do you trust them to make a choice on your behalf, or not?
Did you notice that there is no question-mark punctuation in either of these English sentences? There is (1) a declaration (2) a command. The advice would be to rephrase the request as a grammatical question, which would indicate a relaxed ego-membrane stance of openness to receive an answer.
Another piece of advice might be that highly successful people do not pursue goals defined as possession of personal money.
Being fixated on "super-money" is a compensatory social anxiety response caused by low self-worth. However taking pragmatic steps to obtain funding for your exciting project is a sign of intelligence and is likely to succeed.
Economically successful people typically follow their highest excitement, love to work, and work to realize their creative vision. They want to see a mental idea become physically real, and they behave intelligently in pursuing that realization.
Receiving money-energy to invest in their creative effort is a cheerful by-product of that passionate, exciting work. Money itself is never the ultimate goal.
A mid-life adult querent who sought advice regarding the recent eruption of bitter arguments with her parents provided this description of the situation:
Note the"should", a red-flag for guilt. Because the question is loaded with contradiction between (1) the realized perfection of the parents versus (2) the self-report of bitter family arguments, whatever answer Jyotisha might be able to provide will be - like the question- contradictory and unsatisfying.
|Give yourself Permission to ask the Question! |
Jyotisha is neutral
Jyotisha is a system of scientific observation and prediction. Jyotisha is not a religion; it describes religion. Jyotisha is not a culture; it describes cultures. Jyotisha does not judge the worthiness or morality of an phenomena. It simply identifies the phenomena.
Every thought, work, and deed is part of the system. With sufficient awareness, every thought, word, and deed can be correctly identified. However, we much know what we are looking for. Are we looking for the answer to your natural question, or are we being sent on a wild goose chase trying to find something unnatural to you that another person or doctrine has imposed upon you.
Phrasing of the question sets the trajectory followed by the search for the answer.
For example"tell me when I will be married" is a command. In English, the modal"will" signifies 99.9 % certainty regarding a future event. For example,"the sun will rise tomorrow" is a very reasonable use of the hedge-modal"will" in English!
This command is loaded with heavy moral expectation of the many stakeholders that their culturally-judged worth will be validated by the marriage event. The burden for this main's ability to fulfill the expectations of others is shifted then onto the consulting Jyotishi. What if there is no marriage forecast?
Rephrasing the command into a grammatical question will release some of the guilt energy that is loaded into this command. In fact, acknowledging the cultural expectations within the background to the question can clarify the query process very nicely. In the following question, the background situation is clearly and objectively described. The answer to this question will be easy to find in the Vimshottari dasha.
The question above is indeed actually three questions. Yet, it is well formulated. The background is clear and specific, it's honest about the moral and emotional complexity, and the questions are straightforward.
Please feel welcome ask the true questions that you would like to ask!
Synchronicity and Natural Affinity
between the querent and the diviner during divination
It is also true that"natural affinity"and"synchronicity" do have an effect.
If the astrologer is not guided by your questions, but rather the astrologer is allowed to select the patterns which the astrologer personally finds most intriguing, from amongst the thousands of patterns present in your nativity, then the astrologer could very well select some patterns which are indeed of strong interest to you!
However we will have much more targeted results if you will be kind enough to write some clear, well-thought-out, and important questions. These questions produced by you can help train my attention upon the information patterns that you seek to see.
Questions which require a bit of background are great. For instance, someone recently asked about his medical career, whether he would pass an important professional licensing exam. This fellow needed to provide some background on his medical education, the type of exam etc.. We were able to find the relevant patterns efficiently (without any guessing!). Indeed the Jyotisha charts indicated he would pass but just barely, and on his third and final try. I was delighted to receive the querent's email confirmation that, despite nearly crippling anxiety and low confidence, he finally passed the exam!
I much prefer to receive your written questions via email, but it's OK to send via snail mail if security is very important. All materials are completely confidential, of course. Please provide as much or as little detail as you like, but - again - more background is generally more helpful to me..
Divinations of all types give much better results when the querent has formed clear and complete questions in one's mind.
The process of writing out questions definitely helps establish psychic permission to receive clear, intuition-confirming answers.
|vague and poorly defined Questions that are too general to produce a clear answer |
Milestone event that lacks... an event
Request for remedy - problem not identified
| "How will be my finances?"|
"When will I achieve spiritual realization?"
"Will I ever be happy and satisfied?"
"How is my marriage?"
"How will be my children's success in life?"
"When will I be wealthy and successful?"
"When will I reach the heights?"
"When will my ship come in?"
provided as a"milestone event".... OK, what happened?
Concerning a child - what is the child doing? Here the writer is so consumed by judgment-and-criticism energy that the actual behavior is not mentioned.
|Questions that are specific about persons-places-things are much more likely to produce a useful answers:|| "I finished medical school in 1998 with a specialization in cardiac surgery but I've never been able to practice in my specialty - have had to work in other areas like family medicine - is there a time when I can return to heart surgery?" |
"my mother is in her 80's and healthy, but I wonder if she'll get dementia, and also whether I could financially manage residential care for her. Do you see a timeline for her life and health?"
" My husband and I have used nearly all of our disposable income for repaying student loans, and now after ten years of working full time (both of us!) we can see the light at the end of the tunnel. We might suddenly be able to afford to buy a house. Yet I'm not sure I want to be bound to one place; and this last round of foreclosures since the 2008 collapse really scared me. I feel so ambivalent about buying now... can you see good and bad (likely and unlikely) times to buy a house? In Canada or in India?"
A: as much written background as you can provide is helpful. A timeline is very helpful also. I am perfectly happy to read several pages of questions with background if you can find the time to write it!
However each question should be a grammatical question punctuated by a question-mark. (The question-mark helps to signal emotionally openness to receive an answer. )
Writing out the setting for the questions not only helps confirm the accuracy of birth time, but also sets a clear and detailed agenda for the reading.
Questions that *don't* work are very broad, dreamy, anxious, or poorly formulated.
E.g.,"what can you tell me about my mother?""Will I get rich?""Will I be successful?""Will I find true love?"
Oy. What is meant by"rich"? This highly relative and anxiety- charged term must be defined to be of any use. Same with"successful"and"love" - all in the eye of the beholder!
Better formulated questions provide background and specific expectations .
Here are some examples of questions I have received in the past, regarding"mother, rich, successful, and love".
Clearer questions will give a more accurately targeted answer!
Importantly, there is a difference between asking a question and making a statement.
If the questions are posed as questions then coherent answers that make sense in terms of the trajectory of the Vimshottari Dasha 120-year life path will be found in the fullness of the Jyotisha nativity.
However if the person simply delivers a series of statements, there is no way to"answer"a statement.
If a person has already commanded their world that the future must proceed according to some fixed expectation, then there is no functional reason to have a Jyotisha reading to enquire into the future.
When statements are issued in place of questions, it shows (unfortunately) that the mind is closed to new information and guidance from the samayavidya will be difficult for the client to accept.
If I receive statements in lieu of questions I will do my best to deliver a reading, but I cannot afterward enter into a discourse with a client who wants to"argue" that my forecast contradicts their assertions.
Please think carefully about your questions. The usefulness of the reading for you will depend a great deal upon the precision and detail of your questions.
Although it might show a 'question mark', it's not really a question:
My younger brother is a jealous parasite who lives on my parents' money. I traveled to UK to make a career and have done very well for myself. I do not send money home because I am sure that my parents will spend it on my lazy lying brother. However I do send proper gifts to mom and dad at Diwali etc.
My question regards the family properties. I learned that my parents have left their home and lands to this good-for-nothing dole-wallah. They have cut me from their estate entirely. I have every right to inherit my share and have filed a district case. Please tell me when the matter will be resolved in my favor.
"Question" 2 :
I am God-fearing man who has worked hard to provide the best for my family. I believe in discipline for wife and children. This is taught in our Holy Book. Two years ago, by evil influence of her mother, my wife kidnapped our children to her parents' home.
A corrupt judge decided"domestic violence" (false). I am divorced her and judge says no further contact. I remarry in this year. [statement] Please mention when I shall meet a pure woman this year and when is the marriage date no later than January 20xx thank you.
"Question" 3: I am sick of my husband's philandering ways and I will not tolerate it. He gets everything he needs here at home. I am just sick about it. Divorce is not acceptable in our church. He needs to stop. Please tell me the time when he will stop and also I want a public apology, when does that happen?
I will have great success in film acting; by strength of my desire, handsome looks (photo attached) and many long years of waiting. I plan to join the dramatic cast of an important film in 19xx and to join the"Millionaire's Club" of film actors no later than 19xx. I have seen in a clear vision making my handprint into the cement at [famous Hollywood venue] and this should happen within 4-5 years. Please confirm the time of my greatest success.
Too vague and general:
Helpful amount of detail:
Now that she is elderly, she expects me to pay her care expenses from my salary. I feel deeply resentful of her selfishness, but I wonder if we might experience some healing of this relationship now that she is old and weak.
Should I agree to pay for her care? That would be a serious financial pinch. Will our relationship improve?"
Helpful amount of detail:
"My mother spends every weekend at her conservative church. She talks about the Bible, about love and charity, and how Jesus says to care for others. She works in a soup kitchen feeding meals to hungry strangers. A lot of people think my mom is a really good person. But at home, she is viciously critical of me and my sister. She has destroyed my marriages. She was so mean to my husbands that they left me. My last husband said I had to choose between him and my mom, and when I could not choose, he walked out.
Every visit with her ends in tears (mine). My sister has completely stopped talking to her but (especially now that I am divorced again) I would like to try to heal our mother-daughter relationship. My sister claims that mom has borderline personality disorder and she will always be like this: sweet and caring to strangers but nasty and hurtful to her own family.
According to the Jyotisha tradition, What do you see about my mother in my chart? Should I allow her back in my life? Or just stop trying to have a normal mother-daughter relationship because of her mental illness?"
Too vague and general:
"Will I get rich?"
Helpful amount of detail:
"My parents were hard-scrabble Arizona ranchers who owned their land and cattle but very little else. As a child I dreamed of making it big: a 20-room mansion, the swimming pool, collector cars in the garage -- just like in the movies!
I've been in real-estate sales for about ten years, and I currently earn about US_100K per year. I don't"feel" rich yet, but I think I could get there, when I start earning US_300K or more.
What does my commission sales income look like for the next ten or twenty years? Is there anything I can do to speed up my earnings?"
Helpful amount of detail:
(This amount of detail clearly shows the themes of salvation and rescue. Jyotisha should )
"I've been on disability for about 15 years. Before that I was an office worker. I do not communicate with my family members, but I do volunteer in a local animal rescue shelter sometimes. Also sometimes I attend a local salvation church.
I think every day about winning the lottery, and I pray to God every morning to please send me a winning ticket. None of that small stuff for me. I want the really big amazing multi-million dollar ticket. But I play scratchers too. I'm sure I deserve to win big.
According to the Jyotisha tradition, Please tell me when I will win the PowerBall."
Too vague and general:
"Will I find love?"
Helpful amount of detail (although somewhat comical):
"I am hoping to get married soon. I am looking for my soul mate. This is the person who loves me completely for exactly who I am without any changes or compromise.
I will know her when I see her. I will not accept anything less than perfection in a mate, and I know that my soul mate from God will also see me as a perfect man.
She will be so beautiful like a fashion model with slender physique, perfect skin, lustrous hair, obedient, and no more than 1.6 meters tall.
When will I find my true love?"
Helpful amount of detail:
"I have been in a series of painful romantic relationships, and by now (my mid-thirties) I can see repeating patterns of low self-esteem and self-destruction (mine and partners). My current partnership is starting to get stressful and I want to get us both into therapy before I repeat the failures of the past.
However my guy just won't commit to work on it. He says he's not doing anything wrong, he's just being himself, and if I don't like him I should just get out. It's the same old cycle - a guy who just won't deal with his feelings, and me the loser.
Can I break out of this horrible cycle? Will I ever find true love?"
Helpful amount of detail:
"My parents are now in the process of arranging a suitable marriage for me, their only daughter. I feel like they have been waiting for this moment to somehow"prove" their value in our community, and now they are deeply involved in the negotiations -- to the point where they think of nothing else. It's so stressful for them and for me too. They email me every day. I feel like my parents are trying to"sell" me in order to gain approval in our community.
I am not the girl that they are selling. I am not modest, obedient, religious, or traditional . I am independent, educated, modern, and I hate to cook!
Also, they don't know about my boyfriend here ... he is from a different community. We have been together for about a year. We haven't talked about marriage (there would be some serious cultural problems with that) but we live together and we love each other. I love my parents deeply, and I don't want to shock them or hurt them, but I also love my boyfriend and I resent the whole process of being"retailed" in the marriage market.
According to the Jyotisha tradition, what should I do?"
Too vague and general:
"Will I be successful in life?"
Too vague and general:
"Will my children be successful?"
Helpful amount of detail:
"I am a single mom with three kids in high school. After working part-time while the kids were little, I just recently got into a demanding full-time job that involves a lot of traveling. The kids are on their own some nights, and I'm tired, but I would love to break some sales records and move higher in this company. Will I be successful?"
Helpful amount of detail:
"I plan to sit for the (USA) Foreign Service Exam next year. I study every day and took a prep class. Still, I've heard it's tough. According to the Jyotisha tradition, will I be successful?"
Helpful amount of detail:
"I failed the medical board certification exam in pediatric oncology twice last year. This spring, I'll have my third and final chance to pass. Naturally I'm terrified of failing - but my family astrologer says I will pass this time. How does it look? Test date April 15, 2002."
More examples of better-formulated questions:
Super-generalized questions such as "will things change?" reflect fear of getting clear answers . Of course things will change - we don't need astrology to know that!
The important question is, will things change according to my positive expectations? Or, is there negative energy, ignorance, fear, anxiety, or interference from well-meaning but manipulative Others that is fogging up one's view of one's own authentic path?
If there is too much anxiety surrounding the reading, specific and immediately useful, spiritually validating answers will be difficult to produce. Be sure to clear out"other people's opinions " before formulating your questions!
Too vague and general:
" ... My first question I have is about my business and my finances. Will they change any time soon? What will happen in my long term relationship I have? What will happen with owning or building a home? What will happen to my direct family if I experience changes in my life. They rely on me for everything!"
Suggestions for clarifying and specifying the inquiry:
If you have time to develop questions which are a bit more specific, the psychic intent that you invest in writing out specific questions will set the energy for clear and useful answers.
For example, you ask"will my business and finances change?"
Unfortunately his type of question is a bit too vague. Vague questions indicate high anxiety, and anxiety impedes the reading. Indeed, everything changes constantly.
More detail in the formulation of the question would be very helpful.
What is your business specialty, what are your goals and expectations for the business, and what if any obstacles do you foresee?
There are millions of details in the Jyotisha charts, so it helps tremendously for me to know a bit of detail. Then I can select the patterns that match your current situation.
What will happen in long-term relationship? is also very vague. It is simply the nature of life that everything is evolving and changing, all the time! Thousands of things will happen in your relationship, on spiritual emotional mental and physical levels.
What specifically would you like to know about? Perhaps prospects for marriage, or children, or property ownership? Or other specific developments that you would like to see materialize in the future?
You ask, What will happen with owning or building a home?
Similarly, please tell me what you would like to happen and what steps you are taking toward making your dreams manifest. Where and when and what costs and co-ownership and other details are quite important.
Otherwise we can only see generalities. If you can provide clearer details, I can then tell you what obstacles and timing issues, if any, are present in the Jyotisha charts.
What will happen to my family if I experience changes in my life?
Well, if you did not experience changes in your life you would not be breathing! Please let me know what sort of changes you are concerned with, and what your fears and hopes for specific future scenarios might be.
Also, if you can be a bit more detailed about your relationship to your family? Do you have young children, or dependent elders? Is their reliance financial, moral, emotional, etc?
Thanks for taking the time to assemble your reading questions. I know that writing out specific questions does take time, but the reward is a much better Jyotisha reading.
The Jyotisha reading is not about"fate" but rather about distinguishing one's own authentic life path plan from the impositions and demands of other people -- including ancestor spirits, family members, co-workers, religious authorities, television advertising etcetera -- whose energy and image projections can get confused with one's own.
When things don't go as planned or hoped for, the usual reason is not the"heavy hand of fate", but rather the failure that can be predicted when one attempts to carry out someone else's projected expectations or fears (such as the unfinished business of a parent).
One signal that one is trying to live according to a false set of expectations (usually trying to please a parent or a spouse) = a fear of asking questions, and the presence of debilitating anxiety about"what will happen". In other words "what will happen" when and if the Jyotisha reading exposes that a clever predatory Other has been insinuating their own agenda into your space, and expediently using your life-force energy for their own ambitious purposes!
(In Jyotisha this sort of psychic fraud is typically Rahu, but also Shani-Chandra, and typically a moral judge in your life such as parent, spouse, or predatory guru-figure whose trust in divine love is so low that they heavily project upon others and refuse you the right to have your own path.)
Indeed, our intuition - if uninterrupted by predatory if"well-meaning" external energy - will always give a very clear read-out of precisely what will happen along the spiritual path. In the intuitive world, there is no time and no space. Only spiritual certainty.
Jyotisha is a spiritual tool. The Jyotisha charts will confirm the unique contents of your personal plan, factoring out the interference patterns caused by other people projecting their images into your field of perception.
Jyotisha information will never contradict your true intuition. (If it does, the birth info is incorrect.)
Please let me know what your expectations are in regard to your most important goals (home, family, business, relationship, etc), and I can then offer you the Jyotisha opinion on whether your present expectations are matched in the astral pattern, or whether some adjustment of expectations is warranted.
If you absolutely cannot provide questions, I do recommend a bit of light meditation on what sort of information you expect to receive and how you might beneficially use it.
The readings are recorded in MP3 audio-file format= available for download. Readings include one free follow-up question, via email. If you have more questions about reading details or Payment please feel free to email me. I look forward to hearing from you.
Sincerely, Barbara Pijan Lama
Q: Why the Client Questions?
Isn't my fate written in the stars?
A: If you decide you would like a reading from me, please advise the birth date, birth place, and birth time (ideally from the birth certificate).
Also please let me know your questions. The way my readings work, I ask for detailed questions with quite a bit of background. I find that writing out the questions for the reading focus provides good psychic grounding, and sets a clear intent for the client to receive useful information.
So if you would like a reading, please do write out a couple of questions that are important to you, with as much detail as you have time for. Some folks write 2 questions and some write 20, but the important part is to let me know what choices you are negotiating and what your leading values are.
If you have enjoyed Jyotisha (or Nadi ) readings in India, you may have noticed a cultural tendency there to make bold predictions of name, fame, and glory (or catastrophic disaster) for every man and woman in the village. Also in India, the viewpoint of fixed destiny or an interpretive orientation toward victim-mind, presuming that events happen"to" people, is quite different from my own viewpoint.
I read Jyotisha script from the understanding that people are actively creating their own experiences by following a subconscious program. I do believe that this programming can be altered through force of consciousness.
But I also appreciate that it takes so much energy to alter the program script that most people are better off just letting the program run naturally.
In India one may be able to judge 90% of a person's reality through their appearance. But because we live in the West, I will ask you to tell me some of your socio-economic and religious details so that I can frame the reading in terms that are meaningful to you.
Q: All you require for the reading is a birth date, place and time.
Is there anything else that would be required for a more precise reading?
For example details of my family, my gender etc etc.
I mean will all the people who were born at the same time and place have the same present and future as me?
This has always been a question in my mind because there are other people in my family who have the same birthday, and we all have different personalities.
A: Very good question, and one worth examining!
Jyotisha uses multiple varga (divisional) charts, and some of these charts will change every minute:
Using the existing birth-time
In reality, the best birth times are accurate only to the minute, and even hospital birth times are typically reported several minutes after the infant's first breath (even with a nurse wearing an accurate wristwatch, standing right there).
Inaccurately recorded birth time whether accidental or intentional is frustrating for astrologers. Jyotishi do the best possible assessments using the birth time as recorded by the family.
In any case, several events must be used to confirm the accuracy of the birth time. It is never good to speak upon the implications of a Jyotisha nativity until a minimum of three life events have been confirmed using the vimshottari dasha.
The process of rectifying a chart for an estimated or unknown birth time can take many hours. Most US Jyotishi charge $100/hr or higher to rectify an unknown birth time.
Rectification involves a labor intensive, reducing and sorting process. The final birth time result is obtained by a process of elimination. It is mentally taxing to perform. However the results can be very gratifying to the Jyotisha when suddenly, with a correct time, the Vimshottari dasha timelords generate the expected results.
In truth, rectification is best done by someone whom knows the native personally, because of the subtle observations involved. However it can be done by a series of not-this-not-that logical eliminations too.
Confirming a known time - accepting the birth certificate time
Other cultural background is helpful
Yes, thank you, knowing the gender and other relevant cultural background is also very helpful!
Close-in-time births in same locale are indeed similar lives
It will be true that all the babies born on the same minute as you in the town of your birth, will have very similar life paths.
Born on same date, years apart, very little commonality
People born on the same date (like you and your relative) nee have little in common astrologically except the degree of the Sun.
Q: What all does the audio-file reading talk about ?
Is there a set of topics that you go over for every horoscope?
If so then, what are they ?
Can we decide what areas we would like to be emphasized for our horoscope ?
Or is this covered by the 5-10 questions we are allotted ?
A: bhava-based Structure of the Reading, Extra Structure from Your Questions
There is a set of topics which naturally structures the reading: the clockwise progress from bhava-1 to bhava-12. We look at the planets and signs of each of the twelve radix houses, plus the navamsha.
Vimshottari dasha + natural behavior of the planets = personal timeline
More details = better
Side benefits of writing out the questions for a Jyotisha reading include the psychic grounding and reflective goal-setting that comes with the writing process.
If you decide you would like a reading, please feel welcome to write out as many detailed questions as you have time to write.
Most people find that in the process of writing out their most important questions, that they are actually asking the same questions from several different points of view.
Regarding, the mode of payment, if I choose to pay by credit card. do I just need to do this through PayPal and then I am done, right ?
Right! PayPal will send me an email confirming your payment, then we are ready to put your reading on the calendar. Typically my queue is long enough that a 60-day lead time is in place. As soon as your reading day arrives, I will start working with your birth place, birth date, birth time, and your detailed personal questions.
All the best, Barbara Pijan Lama, Jyotisha
Hello, From reading on your website, I get the impression that you do only recorded readings?
Do you do them in person or by phone as well?
A: Namaste, That's right, only recorded Jyotisha readings via MP3 download
This restriction is actually for psychic purposes. I find I do a much better reading when I can concentrate on the flow of the Jyotisha divination without interruption from the anxiety of the client.
Best wishes for your success, Sincerely, Barbara Pijan Lama, Jyotisha
Q: Hello, I would like to ask: how does the"Two-hour Jyotisha readingvia MP3" work? I mean - Do I call you and you read my chart for 2 hours or you do it alone and after I receive the MP3 via download? Thank you
I mean - Do I call you and you read my chart for 2 hours or you do it alone and after I receive the MP3 via download? Thank you
A: Namaste, The second option is correct. The Jyotisha reading is not interactive. I do the reading in the studio, record the reading on MP3 audio file, and upload the file to a server from where the client may download to one's own computer.
One follow-up question, via email, is included in the reading price.
Best clients for the readings
Also, I can offer a gift certificate by mail or email if you would like to purchase a reading for a friend as a gift for delivery at a later time.
Wishing you best success in Jyotisha studies,
Sincerely, Barbara Pijan Lama, Jyotisha
Q: Is the reading package cheaper if I make my own Jyotisha charts ?
Namaste !! I am an amateur in Vedic Astrology and really really impressed by your website. And this is my bible.
I live in India and was wondering as to how to go about a reading for me. I don't need any birth charts ( I happen to own a Jyotish software).
I need is the following:
1) Life predictions 2) Marriage and my future. 3) Children
Actually all of these are so related.....if I said know about the future that would be good enough. ...I am not sure how much would this package cost. ...
Warm regards - from India
Thanks for your note. I am always happy to know that students of Jyotisha like myself are receiving benefit from the materials at
Procedure for reading payments is listed at Jyotisha services payment
The reading package always contains these items:
Because there are numerous methods for calculating the nativity, it is important to coordinate my calculations with my interpretation; therefore I always as a matter of course include charts and Vimshottari Dasha printouts (or PDF's) with every reading.
In pre-computer days, certainly, the astrologer's time was so much consumed with making calculations that the majority value of an astrological chart was the labor involved in astronomical computation.
In addition, if one was raised with a culturally superstitious view of astrology, where the hand-written documents (chart diagrams, magical number squares etc.) are treated like talismans, it might be easy to believe that the document medium itself has some mystical-power value.
However, these days, anyone with access to the internet can generate free Jyotisha charts. IMO the Jyotisha documents themselves, available to create and re-create at the push of a button, have no value at all except as temporary containers of timeless Wisdom.
The value lies in the power of the interpretation to generate life-changing insight.
But I can't afford your prices!
If my reading prices seem out of reach, take that as a signal that that your spirit does not want my reading. Your spirit wants you to do your own work!
Rather than buy expensive readings from abroad or suffer the ponderous mystifications of traditional village Jyotishi, I recommend to try to figure out one's own predictions .
Counseling Dialogue vis-à-vis Jyotisha Analysis? Q: Hi Barbara--Well, I've kind of become hooked on your website--in good ways (and bad) I think. The good I think is just looking to learn and expand my self-knowledge. The bad, I suppose, is looking for"Answers "and shortcuts to having to go through the hard experiences. (What with going through Saturn mahadasha with Saturn in the 7th in Capricornus right now.....I don't think that's going to happen.) I've thought of asking you for a reading but I balk at the set-up. I am reluctant to leave myself open to having a detailed report of who I am (two hours does, indeed, feel a little intimidating), where I have been and where I am likely to head based purely on my chart. I have a very difficult chart (and life) which--through the grace of excellent teachers, my own extremely hard work and dim-witted stubbornness--I have managed to make work, more or less. I balk at the idea that you might make an accurate assessment of my strengths and weaknesses based upon my chart without at least getting my perspective and experience as part of the mix--which would could come through dialogue. (You offer the five-ten questions--but I don't consider that a dialogue!) However, based upon your writings, you seem like quite a thoughtful, learned and also compassionate person. And so, I imagine that you have thought this set-up through. Thus, my question is if you could take the time to comment on my above mentioned concern. I look forward to your response!
Hi Barbara--Well, I've kind of become hooked on your website--in good ways (and bad) I think.
The good I think is just looking to learn and expand my self-knowledge.
The bad, I suppose, is looking for"Answers "and shortcuts to having to go through the hard experiences. (What with going through Saturn mahadasha with Saturn in the 7th in Capricornus right now.....I don't think that's going to happen.)
I've thought of asking you for a reading but I balk at the set-up. I am reluctant to leave myself open to having a detailed report of who I am (two hours does, indeed, feel a little intimidating), where I have been and where I am likely to head based purely on my chart. I have a very difficult chart (and life) which--through the grace of excellent teachers, my own extremely hard work and dim-witted stubbornness--I have managed to make work, more or less.
I balk at the idea that you might make an accurate assessment of my strengths and weaknesses based upon my chart without at least getting my perspective and experience as part of the mix--which would could come through dialogue.
(You offer the five-ten questions--but I don't consider that a dialogue!)
However, based upon your writings, you seem like quite a thoughtful, learned and also compassionate person. And so, I imagine that you have thought this set-up through.
Thus, my question is if you could take the time to comment on my above mentioned concern. I look forward to your response!
A : Namaste,
Thanks so much for your note. It sounds like you might enjoy having a face-to-face reading with a Jyotishi in your local area. The readings that I offer are definitely at remote, and purposefully so.
You raise some important points about styles of Jyotisha practice. Thanks for asking a good question! Here is my current viewpoint:
Practice model = counseling dialogue
Practice model = clairsentient reading
Practice model = objective analysis
Students of the vidya are typically more interested in testing the scriptural mandates of classical Jyotisha against their own life experience and the direct experience of those known to them (such as a husband or wife). Also they like to test the predictions which may emerge after the rules have been successfully tested against past experience.
They are less interested in therapeutic 'dialogue' and more interested in objective case analysis. Of course each reading is very specifically personalized - since no two births are the same. Yet students of the vidya realize that the system while highly sophisticated is ultimately quite mechanical, and that the rules are rather fixed.
The target of any Jyotisha reading is an accurate prediction. This is an absolutely mechanical matter. Yet, as noted, the mechanics are highly complex and it may take lifetimes of study and testing to get it right.
In my practice, all personalities are presumed to be composed wholly of Source (what else is there?) and inherently perfect .
There is nothing to "fix", or "avoid" or "worry about". The reading target is to determine "what will Source do next in this personality context?"
To answer this question"what next?" Jyotisha tools such as Vimshottari dasha, various varga, transit tables, inter alia can be deployed. The reading consists of a staged assessment of the 12 bhava of the birth chart * kundali, followed by a review of the Vimshottari dasha timeline, and noting of any currently influential transits. Then based on the previous outlay of factors, the 5-to-10 personal questions may considered in a case-analysis fashion.
In my non-interactive practice, there is little opportunity for the constant interruptions of the judged-and-fearing-judgement ego which can distract the Jyotishi and corrupt the prediction.
In this non-interactive practice, the target of the reading is *not* to therapeutically allay anxieties or repair damaged ego-structure by engaging in a dialogue rich with ego-attribute adjectives such as "good person", "honorable", "successful", "worthy", "well married", "wealthy", "blameless", "pure motive", etc.
In fact, the reading is essentially a two-hour monologue which overflows with descriptive adjectives that are absolutely necessary to convey the imagery of the Framework. However the adjectives are meant to be DESCRIPTIVE not PRESCRIPTIVE and in no way does the Jyotisha description connote any sort of ego-manipulating "social judgment" upon the native.
The vidya of Jyotisha is a spiritual science; its judgments are scientifically descriptive but morally neutral. (Here the term 'scientific' is used not in the sense of modern laboratory process but in the broader original sense of 'scientia' meaning deep knowledge.)
Not only am I not skilled in this type of ego-rebuilding healing; I basically do not believe it is the proper aim of a Jyotisha reading.
Truly, many, many, many people in our world are suffering from traumatic ego-damage due to abusive parenting and corrupt belief systems. One in desperate need of therapeutic ego-emotional healing and social approval should * before requesting a Jyotisha reading * intelligently address this urgent need for ego-membrane repair by seeking qualified therapeutic support.
After stabilizing the ego's constant urgent need for self-justification, it may be fruitful to seek a Jyotisha reading. (Or, ideally, to begin to educate oneself in the mechanics of the samayavidya.)
At this stage of awareness, there is no need for the representative of the vidya (the Jyotishi) to endure the time-consuming therapeutic exercise of the client interrupting the explanatory, predictive discourse in order to"negotiate" for self-acceptance.
Rather, at this stage, the client should possess the"eagerness " of the sincere student (Latin 'studere' = 'to be eager') to learn more about things as they are. IMO the greatest benefit of Jyotisha is its ability to increase one's perceptual clarity toward"what is " which steadily reduces ego-reactivity and opens compassion toward others.
The readings that I offer are primarily a service to sincere students who wish to receive a detailed analysis of the application of Jyotisha principles to their own personal clockworks.
of course it is fascinating to read the application of these principles to one's own nativity, and a correct analysis can serve as a lifetime guide. The analysis is compassionately worded but the goal is spiritual confirmation with material accuracy, not"therapy" in the modern sense.
Time and cost
Inevitably, the working Jyotishi must consider cost of service. Unfortunately, having Ketu in bhava-8, I am unlikely to win the lottery, and having Ketu"the sieve" involved with Shukra in nearly every varga, I am indeed unlikely to retain any sort of financial wealth!
Plus, I tithe to the nuns. Therefore, I will probably always need to charge a market value for readings.
The analysis model at current pricing permits a two-hour reading which covers most of the basics of the nativity plus time for 5-10 questions. If I were to offer an *initial* dialogued counseling package in addition to the analysis, the cost of a reading would double or triple, due to the time involved.
However, please note that after the initial reading with me, clients are most welcome to pay for"additional questions "as a follow-on explanation to the reading - and many clients do indeed choose this option.
Your present needs
Since you are seeking a"dialogue" it might be beneficial to find a reputable counseling astrologer in your area. It might also suit your purpose to visit a qualified healer such as a psychologist, or a trained pastoral counselor, or just talk with a trusted friend!
Wishing you good luck and happiness, Sincerely, Barbara Pijan Lama, Jyotisha
Barbara Pijan Lama, Jyotisha
|"what will Source do next in this personality context?"|
Q:Dear Sister Barbara, As seen, you are a dedicated astrologer who is sharing your expert knowledge on Jyotisha Astrological matters.
I'm actually searching for Astrologers who are genuine in sharing their knowledge upon consultations.
My point is, I have consulted various astrologers through the Net, unfortunately most of them do not guide me as what they are supposed to.
They'll only tell me that I'm so-so star sign, so-so planets are in the said houses and then they'll ask me what is that I want to know(based on 1 question upon consultation). This is after I have banked-in the payment into their bank accounts.
Here's an example, last year an astrologer told me that I'll be entering Shani Maha Dasha period and told me that everything's ok in my astrological chart except I need some Vaastu arangements.
Then recently when I ask for Matching compability with my wife, the astrologer told in his report that I am the said star sign and currently I'm going under Shani Maha Dasha.
So I'm not saying both are incompetent astrologers, they are actually quite famous and what they've predicted about my star sign and period are actually the same.
However, none are actually telling me that what will be the effects of such periods, what are the other periods I'm going through, the said planets in the said houses will give such effects, etc.
Jyotisha is supposed to guide an individual, things which they dont know are told to them so that they may avoid certain habits or things and use their potentials in certain things.
However, the astrologers are only interested to ask you;"ok, what's that you want to know?"and that's about it.
The reason I'm telling you this is that of course I would love to know every spheres in life(health, wealth, family, marriage, spiritual, etc).
Hence, I'm humbly asking you that is your consultations will also be the same procedures like other astrologers?
Seriously speaking, I thirst for astrological guidiance from a genuine astrologer.
I'm going through a bad phase of time now that I need astrological guidiances badly!
At times my mind tells me that it could be the works of those envious of me(using evil spells) and times I think it could be due to Astrological reasons.
A : Namaste,
Thanks very much for your compliments.
I'm sorry to hear about your disappointing experiences in Jyotisha consultation.
It sounds like one of the difficulties may arise from the expectation that Jyotishi are mystical mind-readers who can clairsentiently apprehend what you are really asking for, without the client needing to mention it. Of course this is a rather childlike expectation. Still, you are not alone in the superstitious belief that anyone outside oneself can know more about you than you!
People do the same thing with physicians, dentists, psychologist, even the tax attorney ... the client can walk into the consulting office without having prepared any questions, hoping that their professional adviser will somehow secretly"know" what is on their mind : )
Just like the licensed professions, Jyotisha practice requires is a set of complex calculations and rules which will yield answers to specific questions . You as the adult consumer should be prepared to ask the Jyotishi to answer those specific questions which are important for you, and to receive answers which are closely related to your specific questions.
Then, if you wish to pay a Jyotishi to give you a professional answer to a query, you can be confident in your adult expectation of what sort of information you will get for your money.
My recommendation is for students to learn to interpret one's own Jyotisha nativity so that one does not have to depend on the viewpoint of an outside astrologer.
The reason that I have published a number of articles and sample charts is so that students can use these examples as educational resources. I hope that you can teach yourself to interpret your own nativity so that you don't lose money paying for predictions that are not useful for you!
It is important to be educated in Jyotisha concepts before one consults an outside astrologer. It is similar to visiting the medical doctor: one should have some knowledge of the physical body before discussing it with a medical adviser!
Try reading the classic Jyotisha scriptures and utilizing the various Jyotisha websites that are available on the internet in order to empower yourself.
And most of all, please avoid superstitions which claim that the power of the planets resides outside oneself. The power of the planets exists only within oneself, and it is completely within one's own ability to direct this destiny.
... it is important to mention that I do not make use of concepts such as curses, magical potions, amulets, talismans, or other superstitious customs. I do often recommend flawless gemstones since I find gems to be effective when properly applied.
However, the main remedy which I typically recommend for planetary ills is seva . Selfless service targeted to those who have one's same problem but in a worse degree is the quickest, most effective remedy of all.
And Seva is Free. Wishing you all best success in your Jyotisha studies, Sincerely, Barbara Pijan Lama
Wishing you all best success in your Jyotisha studies,
Sincerely, Barbara Pijan Lama
|I've had several astrological readings - with both tropical astrologers (good ones! high recommendations!) and Jyotishi. |
The results are usually useless. Usally I know more than the astrologer.
| The three red flags of divinatory questioning are "SHOULD-GOOD-KNOW" |
Questions such as "when is a good time to X" are actually quite useless, because they are not really questions about X. It is a camouflage question that is really asking "Am I a good person? Because good people get good results, they are valued, they are worthy of respect, and loved. SO I NEED THINGS TO BE GOOD!"Most people are so worried about whether "things "are reflecting "good" judgment upon them that they have no idea how things really are . Thus they do not know what is really happening mechanically around them, physically or psychically. They do not function very successfully in the world.
Stay out of the self-judgment trap. Phrase Jyotisha divination question using a non-judgmental vocabulary.
If you notice any "SHOULD-GOOD-KNOW" flags, try to rewrite those questions without using any moral value judgments.
Eliminate 'good', 'bad', 'right', 'wrong', 'positive', 'negative' etc. unless these adjectives are marking quantifiable measurements on a clearly identified scientific scale.
'Positive' and 'negative' are neutral when describing air temperature, and "good" is sometimes a synonym for "useful technology". However in human relationships and self-valuation these value-laden adjectives can indicate an agenda of trauma-originated, pain-fearing self-abuse.
To produce the most useful, pragmatic answers, try to formulate questions using the most neutral, specific vocabulary.
Q: Hello, I have perused your website, and would like to explore the possibility of having a reading done.
My only question/concern is that the time of my exact birth is uncertain as the papers were lost.
In other words, I have a window, but would like to know if it is possible to have a full jyotish reading done (and if it is worth it) with this information in context.
Previously, my parents said it was 5:30 a.m., but are not exactly sure. Probably you could rewind an hour ahead or back. Is it worthwhile to have a reading done with this (slightly ambiguous information)? Thank you and I look forward to hearing from you. Best Wishes,
Thank you and I look forward to hearing from you. Best Wishes,
Thanks for your note. Unfortunately, as you point out, the Jyotisha reading really isn't going to be very accurate given the uncertainty regarding your birthtime.
The Vimshottari dasha timing has a start-point that is derived from the exact degree of the Moon at the time of birth; definitely this degree is in question if you are talking about a possible 2-hour range of birth time!
For us in the (Rahu-ized) modern world, an individual may rise to great heights or sink to unfathomable lows from one's original social position at birth; multiple marriages are no longer exceptional; and there will also likely be several crafts or professions practiced along with way.
It is true that measuring the angles of graha from Chandra lagna and evaluation of the traditional karakas will take you a long way in understanding the person's psychology. However for most of us, an accurate time of birth to the minute is really necessary for worldly predictions such as career on the basis on the lord of the 10th navamsha.
Wishing you best success in your Jyotisha studies,
Sincerely, Barbara Pijan Lama, Jyotisha
Q: Dear Barbara, Could I have the reading and then ask my five to ten questions, after the reading ?
A : Namaste,
The requested 5-10 questions are intended to structure the Jyotisha reading, so that the client receives answers to their most important questions. The client's questions do not limit the reading, but rather shape and direct it.
During the reading, I continue to mention predictions that arise through a step-wise inspection of the radix and navamsha (along with other varga as needed), a review of the Vimshottari Dasha, and an evaluation of the impact of current transits (related to the current planetary bhukti lord).
Most people appreciate a reading that is targeted to their near-term concerns. Near-term concerns can certainly be spiritual and mental as well as emotional and material. And near-term can mean "from now until death". (Esp. for those of us getting older!)
I find that detailed questions are very helpful in making sure that the reading is useful to the client. Some clients may have anxiety about the potential revelations of a reading. A superstitious thinker may expect some shocking and unexpected information will emerge. Of course that never happens -- Jyotisha like all divinatory methods simply confirms the native 's own intuition and brings a small amount of subconsciously held knowledge into the conscious light.
A Jyotisha reading should be a cooperative consulting exchange between two adults. The adult client says to me, the Jyotishi: "here are my concerns, you are professionally trained, what answers can you provide to me, from the knowledge you have gained in your training?"
Jyotisha practice requires engaged intuition -- as do surgery, midwifery, parenting, marital diplomacy, etc. -- but Jyotisha is not a magical process that provides sudden and miraculous new information.
Jyotisha really is a database system and it has to be queried intelligently . Guiding questions from the client are a great asset to a successful reading. Naturally, the Jyotishi can follow a standard set of questions according to the progress of the twelve houses (how is the health? how is the career? how is the meditation practice? etc.) and that is the default review for any reading.
I can certainly walk through the default review process, and that may prove quite useful as a general update on your life circumstances. If after the general update is finished, you would prefer to ask the 5-10 questions, each "follow-up" question would be available as an "additional question" via email.
From my practice point of view, I do permit clients to request a reading first with no guiding questions and ask the additional questions at one's leisure, if the client is comfortable with paying separately for each additional question.
Again, you're more than welcome to save your questions for after the reading -- but do be aware that it is considerably more expensive that way! (... because it takes me much more time). Hope you are doing well and enjoying a lovely summer,
Hope you are doing well and enjoying a lovely summer,
|Hello Barbara, |
I have paid for the gem recommendation and I am looking forward to receiving it. I'd like to ask you a few questions as well, and I'd be grateful if you could offer a few words on each of them. Thanks for your website - I'm always learning from it. I know you're busy so whatever you can do to answer to these eight questions would be appreciated.
I'd like to ask you a few questions as well, and I'd be grateful if you could offer a few words on each of them.
Thanks for your website - I'm always learning from it. I know you're busy so whatever you can do to answer to these eight questions would be appreciated.
Sincerely, XX Los Angeles
| Namaste, |
Thanks for your payment and yes, I'll be happy to complete a ratna recommendation for you.
However I wanted to be sure that you know that a gem recommendation is not the same as a Jyotisha reading and it is not designed to provide answers to individual questions.
The ratna recommendation document assesses the 12 bhava of the natal kundali and reports on the applicability of the nine traditional jewel remedies for each bhava. Information includes timing of application and removal of the gems, following the sequence of the vimshottari dasha.
The ratna report is a lower cost service, designed only for the purpose of providing an opinion to folks who are interested in purchasing a Jyotisha-qualified jewel, and specific questions are not included. (Most remedial ratna buyers like to obtain a second and third Jyotishi opinion as well.)Questions can be answered (indeed, questions are required) in the broader and more detailed 2-hour Jyotisha reading.
Wishing you all best success,
Barbara Pijan Lama, Jyot.
Dear Barabara Pijan,
I saw on your website that you do not have a phone—I think that is brilliant. I also do not have a phone here, but of course, being in the Himalayas—it is much easier to be without one. I think it is beautiful that you are able to carry out your depth of Jyotish and path in the US. ...
... I live in the Himalayas (in an ashram), high up in the mountains outside of Uttarkashi .... Recently, we have been able to access the internet (!) and recently I came across your beautiful website. You have done a remarkable job.
We live a very inward life here, and occasionally I have deep and profound experiences of consciousness which relate to the field of jyotish. The whole cosmic display of everything in life is so beautifully expressed in the simple yet unbelievably profound graha, Nakshatra, rashi and bhavas.
I am interested in getting a reading from you, but as a monk in the Himalaya I am not getting a salary—all of our needs are taken care of by donations. Do you offer a discount for those like us? ..., I would greatly appreciate it.
Thank you for offering so much knowledge and insights on the net that you have so beautifully compiled and integrated for us all.
All bliss from up here in the mountains,
Thanks so much for your kind email. It sounds like you are living a wonderful and peaceful life there in the Himalaya. I too have lived in the Himalaya (insolu-khumbu Nepal near the Tibet border) and I still do visit occasionally for family events.
Thanks very much for your compliments on the Jyotisha materials at www.barbarapijan.com I am always happy to know that students of the vidya find the materials to be
It might not surprise you to learn that I receive dozens of emails each week asking for Jyotisha guidance. I am able to offer approximately one paid reading per week. With family responsibilities and my university teaching job, that is unfortunately the limit of my service these days!
Unfortunately free or discounted readings are not available from me (there is a psychic reason for that too!) However in the future I do hope to be able to refer indigent enquiries to some senior Jyotisha students. I know that there are many sincere and deserving aspirants who would benefit immediately from access to the Jyotisha perspective, and I would like to facilitate that access... perhaps some day that will be possible.
At the moment, there are several students (not mine; they have various teachers) who have told me via email that they might be feeling strong enough in their Jyotisha skills to start doing Seva readings via email. As soon as these senior studentsadvise me of their availability for the Seva, I willannouncethe happy news.
Until then, I do hope that the examples and discussions posted on may be of some service for those who are trying to make sense of one's own Jyotisha timeline.
I welcome suggestions from readers. Please let me know via email if there are particularly topics that you might like to see written on the website. While I am not able to address these suggestions immediately, I do keep such development suggestions in mind and hope that I can continue to publish answers to common questions. (Gochara Shani- Kanya is currently oppressing my 6/12 Chandra-Budha axis. )
While Shanaiscarya does provide a helpful disciplinary structure in the reflective (Chandra) and articulatory (Budha) mind, He also ruthlessly controls the allocation of Time. I wish (Chandra) that I had more time and material resources, but it's Shani's job right now to make sure that I don't!
Wishing you best success and happiness in all of your spiritual studies,
Sincerely, Barbara Pijan Lama, Jyotisha
Dear Barbara Pijan,
Thanks for a terrific website, just brimming with wonderful information.
I might like to purchase a reading from you as a gift for one of my family members, but I'm not sure he understands why people ask for astrology readings. (
He's a young engineer, very practical fellow).
How would you explain the reasons that people ask for readings? Thanks.
.... In answer to the question of why folks request Jyotisha readings, I'd say from thirty years experience that it runs the gamut. Some people have a broad, general interest in understanding their Vimshottari dasha timeline and its predictive capabilities.
In practice, there isn't too much difference between the reading for the person with the pressing material issues vs. the readings for the folks with the general psycho-spiritual curiosity.
The answers to the big questions emerge from the character of the planets in the houses. The answers to the small questions emerge from the character of the planets in the houses.
So, most of the value of the reading is in simply having a map of the incarnation - the Jyotisha nativity - and giving oneself permission to use the map.
Hope this answer is helpful. Sincerely, BPL
Q: Books? More Detailed Explanation of Practice + Process?
Books? More Detailed Explanation of Practice + Process?
... with your wealth of knowledge, it is obvious that you could write many interesting, comprehensive Jyotisha books that would put a lot of the efforts currently out there to shame.
I have purchased a few books and downloaded a few from scribd, yet I always come back to your outstanding website.
You don't just say"what is " but"why it is "; very much in the vein of the late, great Behari (but with less esoteric emphasis).
As I'm sure you know as an educator, that approach is highly conducive to learning such a complex science.
....do you ever see yourself writing books?
... Also, you have a lot of very useful celebrity profiles on your website, but mostly dealing with specific life issues.
All extremely illuminating!
However, do you ever see yourself doing a complete analysis of a chart, from first look to what eventually delivers on the indications in the chart and what doesn't and why based on the dashas, divisional charts and transits?
Essentially, the process the you use when someone orders a chart reading from you. Is it systematic (bhava by bhava, graha by graha) or do you analyze only what jumps out at you, or little of both?
I am [searching for instructions regarding] an effective approach to reading a chart, because you seem to glean a great deal with your technique.
I know you are a very busy woman, at least your profile suggest as much. But if you can find the time, I would greatly appreciate a little direction and/or at the very least some hope that you may be publishing or uploading to your website a breakdown of how you do what you do. ...
I am only a year into Jyotisha (previously I studied western astrology), but I have learned more from your website than anything or anyone else. ... any aid that I can get in preparing for that possible future is greatly appreciated.
Thanks very much for your lovely compliments on the site and its educational value for you.
Yes I would be delighted to write some books as time allows; these would probably be e-books that I could correct quickly, unless I was lucky enough to find an excellent sharp-eyed editor. Like any teacher and parent, I struggle to create the time to write. Yet, as family responsibilities settle and perhaps my teaching schedule could be reduced, then yes, writing books become a happy possibility.
Before starting on such a big project, I would probably conduct a"needs assessment" to solicit feedback from regular readers like yourself. I'd want to ask for the same type of guiding information you've provided above: what questions does a beginner have? And in what order?
After formally collecting requests and making a plan for what to present and in what order, I'll probably do a second survey to find out more detailed needs. For example, once the preliminary knowledge base in in place, what intermediate questions arise? How much of the practice is counseling and how much is predictive? Etc. Then, spirits willing, I'll set to it.
I am presently enjoying a 10 year mahadasha of karmesha-10 Chandra in Ari Bhava, which indicates direct clinical service of hands-on problem-solving (or problem validation !) via client readings and classroom teaching. This Chandra is not suited for romantic sorts of writing, but it is quite good for logical argumentation (step-wise reasoning) and clinical descriptions.
For me - as for anyone - bhukti periods of bhratrupathi-3 and vidyapathi-5 can produce effective messaging (3) and creative performance via writing (5). Since my uttama-Budha occupies the house of meditations and dreams (12) Budha periods are very nice for writing about astral and clandestine realities. (In fact, two academic theses in religious studies and one in linguistics were written in Budha periods.)
Thanks again for your compliments and request for books or e-books in Jyotisha. I'll see what kind of time schedule Professor Shani is willing to grant. If the lords of 1, 3, 5 and in this case 9-12 (Jyotisha Vidya) are willing, I'd be happy to try to support worldwide Jyotisha education with books to supplement the website.
Wishing you best success in Jyotisha Studies,
Sincerely, Barbara Pijan Lama, Jyotisha
Q: I'm dating a girl that I met in grad school. We're in that time of life when marriage is looking like the next step. Both finished professional training now. We're not being pushed by families to marry; just kind of finding that we're in the same life phase and enjoy each other's company and ... well, should we get married? Can I get a quick compatibility check from you to see whether we have good matches?
Both finished professional training now. We're not being pushed by families to marry; just kind of finding that we're in the same life phase and enjoy each other's company and ... well, should we get married?
Can I get a quick compatibility check from you to see whether we have good matches?
This is a more demanding question than you might appreciate. Marriage compatibility readings by their nature must take a serious look into points of lifestyle compatibility and expectations carried in from both persons' childhoods (Surya-Chandra, Shukra, Rahu-Ketu, Mangala etc).
The person requesting the reading needs to do some deep reflection.
It is too difficult for me to answer broad and vaguely prescriptive queries such as "should we get married?"
A poorly defined question like puts the onus on me to determine the scope of"should" -- and even thinking about the moral, psychological, and social implications of"should" requires considerable analysis from me to give a responsible answer.
One specific calendar question that could be asked = "do our respective timelines per Vimshottari dasha and major gochara influence point to us both getting married during the same season?"
It is also straightforward to ask a Chandra-matching question such as "Is the general condition of Chandra in both nativities overall compatible per nakshatra and lords of 7th from Chandra, 7th-from-radical-lagna, and 7th-from-Zukra?"
Yes, I can answer those specific questions in about 10 sentences.
However, do keep in mind that simply because two people will marry at the same time does not mean they will marry each other!
However, there is a good deal more to adult marriage prediction than the counting of koota's. Modern life is complicated. People live for many decades. Entitlements of modern women to obtain Education and the economic power that education brings have changed modern expectations of marriage. Furthermore, the presumption that spousal happiness rests upon the correct performance of socially prescribed duties on both sides is no longer sustainable.
In years gone by, a village Jyotishi would match the qualities of docility, domesticity, and fertility with the judgment"woman happy in marriage". However it is no longer a quick decision as to whether a woman with those traits will be happy in the modern world. As the economic divisions of labor have shifted, those same traits could now be judged as weak-minded, passive, and incontinent. There are many required questions about the life path of both persons, not just one general estimate of"happiness ".
A too-superficial answer of a too-simple question might mislead an unreflective person into thinking that there is some simple formula for marital happiness which requires no effort from the partners.
Marriage = Ultimate Spiritual Practice
While there are some obvious red flags to avoid when matching nativities, the main key to success in marriage is to practice marriage like a form of karma yoga. That means both people should expect tough resistance sometimes and be willing to accept some penance. p >The question is, can they handle the pressure? We have to ask, where are the rough spots? When will I feel the most suffering? Is my marriage commitment a personal religious vow or perhaps a more social action guided mainly by cultural, financial, or historical considerations? There are no right and wrong answers, but there must be honest answers in order to embark upon marriage with mental health based on honest expectations.
If you are really serious about this prospective partner and you have been talking together about a possible life commitment, request a full reading and be willing to prepare some serious questions. Then listen to the answers without interruption.
PPreparing the questions requires intensive reflection and analysis on your part to formulate exactly what outcome you are hoping for -- and also quite a bit of concentration on my part as I determine how closely your graha narrative will match the expectations-hopes-wishes-ideals.
Before we embark upon the effort from all parties that is required for a full reading, there should be a pretty solid motivation to examine the issues.
People pretty much get out of the Jyotisha readings what they put into it.
If client puts in some substantial reflection upon their own expectations then I can look very closely at the supports and challenges for meeting those visionary ideals.
Naturally, it won't give a very satisfactory reading just to ask"will things turn out well? will be be happy?" or other general platitudes.
If we do a full reading it should cover major issues of married life like health, finance, dual career, children, and in-laws.
Combing through those expectations takes work from you. When your part is complete, then I will match your efforts to be honest and wise with my Jyotisha skills for assessing the outcome of the graha
Easy + Difficult = Honest
Some results are easy = thoughts matched to emotions, little spiritual growth.
Some results are difficult = thoughts mismatched to emotions, although discovering this produces best spiritual growth.
We can only know the size of the gap between expectations and the reality-producing- machine of subconscious emotion, if we can be sure what it is that you think you expect!
Q:What is the format for the included follow-up question?
Q: Can you tell me what sort of follow-up question is permitted?
Perhaps upon listening the reading when you say something, I would want to verify that what I understand is what you mean - in simple terms, to map what is said to what is meant.
If in order to clarify my understanding of the reading, I need to ask something on the reading itself - no new question - will that be included in the reading or will constitute "follow up question" and will be charged separately?
Yes, that is what the follow-up question is for: to clarify and if necessary elaborate upon any terminology, phrasing, description, or assertion that was made in the Jyotisha reading.
Additional questions which are paid separately are those which have new content that was neither mentioned in the previous reading nor included in the 5-10 questions of the previous reading. It often happens that Jyotisha readings stimulate or coincide with spiritual expansions and life changes, so that things may appear in a new light and new opportunities may be recognized subsequent to a Jyotisha reading. This may bloom into new questions which have become "newly important". These newly important questions were not considered during the previous readings but may be considered separately afterward.
Typically a newly important question needs about 30 minutes to consider the relevant factors and answer: thus, the separate cost.
One question regarding the existing content from the reading can certainly be asked and answered, sometimes immediately after the client receives the reading and sometimes years later : )
What I can't do in follow-up however is enter into a teaching discourse, explaining the principles of Jyotisha. Also I can't answer very vague or poorly formulated questions such as "what can you tell me about my mother?" or "will I find happiness?".
The follow-up question has to be sensible, related to the reading and the 5-10 questions asked during the reading, and have some material denotation - not completely abstract or theoretical. (Of course I love to engage in theoretical discussions but Professor Shani ensures that Time limits these considerably!)
Here is a great example of a request for clarification regarding a phrase "philosophical awareness":
“You said that xxx period would be mainly a time of broad philosophical awareness. What do you mean by philosophical? Do you mean intuitive, or religious, or some other level of understanding? How does a broad philosophical awareness impact my daily experience at home and at work? Should I use this period for a special type of teaching or learning? How does it impact my health? What makes this period different from any other period?”
I appreciate that many clients who request readings are sincere students of Jyotisha and their questions are part of their own development as future teachers. That is a good thing, and I am willing to direct those questions to textual sources or suggest a path for study.
But again, being a mom and a university instructor, my time is limited. So the questions, as well as the answers, have to refer to the actual content of the reading. If I mention an interpretive principle feel free to ask about the principle, and if I mention a prediction feel free to ask about the prediction. However, followup questions should always refer to the topics covered during the reading. New topics = new readings.
Wishing you best success in Jyotisha studies,
Sincerely, Barbara Pijan Lama, Jyotisha
Here is my follow up question . Tell me all about my life. You did not tell me everything in the reading. You said that my inner expectations trigger the appearance of partners.
Well I want to know ALL about this next partner. You know HE will be a husband because I do not believe in relationships outside of marriage. As you know I have been married numerous times and I am still waiting for the ONE who will complete me so I need to know EVERYTHING about him. I feel that you did not describe HIM completely in the previous reading and that there is MORE that I should know.
Yes I heard you say that it is my own expectation which creates the love partners and that sounds OK to me so I need you now to tell me everything I should work on to get ready for this next love of my life. You know the last marriage was so hard for me, it was a fail, he mistreated me, but I am full of hope for goodness in the future and I believe that God wants only GOOD things for me! Also I asked you a question about death and you did not tell me everything that I wanted to know. Will you give me some clarity as to why you did not cover these questions in totality in my reading?
Also I asked you a question about death and you did not tell me everything that I wanted to know. Will you give me some clarity as to why you did not cover these questions in totality in my reading?
I am a good woman and I deserve a good healthy relationship, so please tell me about that relationship, as you know it has to be a man of God, a faithful man who loves me and only me and he should be employed I am so SICK of paying the bills for these men who stop working as soon as they are married to me and my paycheck.
Barbara you know I have a lot to offer the right man and I am ready to be HAPPY by God's Grace. This is my followup question please answer me soon.
Response to a client with a very strong Rahu-6
A:Namaste, I know you are sincere and I know that you are an experienced teacher, so let's keep trying to craft an answerable question.
In your message that is asking for a follow-up clarification, there is only one question. In English writing, questions are easy to find because they are punctuated with a question mark. The sole question posed in your request is "Will you give me some clarity as to why you did not cover these questions in totality in my reading?"
Three topics are mentioned
However none of these topics contain a question.
"Will you provide me some clarity?" is mainly a polite invitation to provide information; it's not a topical question and the answer for it will not be found in the Jyotisha database. If I consider this to be your follow-up question, the answer would be"yes I will certainly try".
Let's construct a topical question that could produce a meaningful answer for you. As a native speaker of English, you know how to phrase topical questions: start the question with 'who-what-when-where-why-how' and use a concrete subject, a verb, and a concrete object.
Jyotisha questions ideally should be framed in Jyotisha language. If you have a question about the 7th bhava (public marriage, contractual partnership) or the 7th navamsha (private marriage, psychic attraction-repulsion * akarshana ** vikarshana *) or about Chandra (emotional health, intuition, mother) or about any feature of the Jyotisha nativity that has been mentioned in past readings, please ask about that feature.
In *all* divinations -- not only Jyotisha but also if you like to read Tarot Cards, throw the I-Ching, practice bibliomancy, follow omens of bird-flight, read aura-photos -- it is essential to pose only one specific question.
Jumbled questions indicate fusing-confusion = a lack of discrimination due to emotional distress and inner conflict. Please give yourself the gift of quiet-mind. Wait until you have a moment of undistracted calm in your life, when your emotions are balanced. Then frame the question.
In your case it seems like you have a number of concurrent, overlapping concerns. Try to separate these concerns. Please consider writing out ALL of your many questions in the who-what-when-where-why-how format. In a moment of disgorgement, you might generate a dozen or more questions! Then please choose *one* question to send to me as a follow-up. Naturally that one question must be related to the topics mentioned in the Jyotisha reading.
There are currently several dozen client questions in my queue and they will all be answered clearly as time permits. However a clear answer needs a clear question.
In addition to being a necessary first step toward a clear Jyotisha answer, the discipline of crafting one specific question produces other spiritual benefits including greater objectivity and calm. The practice of crafting a clear question requires discipline and mental clarity; it is worth doing. I look forward to receiving your question.
Wishing you every success in your study of the samayavidya,
|Q: thanks for the Jyotisha reading. I really enjoyed it. Here is my follow-up question. || |
A:Namaste and thanks for multiple questions... However we need to narrow down to one question please. Also that question must be constructed so that it can be answered in a clear and unambiguous way. Unfortunately in their present condition these questions are much too vague and open-ended to allow a clear Jyotisha answer.
For example, there are hundreds of lessons to be learned in each lifetime. Are you asking about the key lesson during a particular Vimshottari bhukti?
The opposite of life is not death. The opposite of death is birth .
Consciousness is eternal; therefore of course you will survive. We will all survive. Every last one of us! Are you rather asking about the timing of shell-death during the present incarnation?
We are all learning constantly, day in and day out. We all meet challenges in every aspect of life - physical, emotional, mental, spiritual -- day in and day out.
Are you asking perhaps about a narrative of personal worthiness, managing the poison of self-doubt, or experience of social anxiety during transformation of personal identity during specific time periods in life?
"He has made everything beautiful in its time.
He has also set eternity in the hearts of men;
Yet they cannot fathom what God has done
from beginning to end."
~~ Book of Ecclesiastes * Koheleth, 3:11
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